If I had to thank one person for the softness that's grown in me over the years, it would honestly be you.
New Wishes
A handful of wishes pulled from the cabinet this morning. Pick one up β copy, save it to your pinboard, or send it on.
Some friendships feel like effort; ours feels like rest β and rest is the rarest, most undervalued thing.
You are proof that not everyone who came in late stays at the edges β sometimes they end up in the middle of the family.
I'd be a flatter, less honest person without your friendship β and I'd never have known what I was missing.
Thank you for the texts that always seem to land when I need them β like you have a small alarm only my soul rings.
You let me be a slow learner about important things, and you never made me feel stupid for taking the long way.
What are we writing today?
Cabinets sorted by occasion. Open one β pages are arranged by warmth, not algorithm.
- Anniversary
- Baby
- Belated
- Best
- Birthday
- Boy
- Boyfriend
- Christian
- Christmas
- Congratulation
- Diwali
- Easter
- Eid Mubarak
- Engagement
- Farewell
- Fathers Day
- Friendship
- Funny
- Get Well
- Girl
- Girlfriend
- Good Morning
- Good Night
- Graduation
- Hanukkah
- Heart Touching
- Holiday
- Invitation
- Job
- Love
- Miss You
- Mothers Day
- New Year
- Recovery
- Retirement
- Romantic
- Thank You
- Thanksgiving
- Wedding
- Well
- Women's Day
- Sympathy
- Valentine's Day
- Halloween
- Veterans Day
I love that we've stopped pretending with each other β that we can be tired, or wrong, or sad, and still get fed.
You're the friend I think of when I read a good book β I want to underline a paragraph and send it to you.
Thank you for never measuring our friendship by how often we talk β only by how much we mean it when we do.
If I made a list of safe places, you'd be on it before any addresses β even the ones I've called home.
You're the friend who's stayed through the parts I thought would scare everyone off β and you didn't even comment.
Some friends are seasons; you've been weather β present in every climate, kinder in the cold ones.
I love the small jokes only we still find funny β they're tiny rooms only we can enter, and I treasure each one.
Thank you for the patience you've shown my worst self, and the celebration you've shown my better one.
You're the friend my future self will list when she's asked how she survived the years that almost broke her.
I don't know how I got lucky enough to land you, but I've stopped asking β I just say thanks, quietly, often.
You believe in me on the days I forget to β and your belief has been load-bearing more times than I can count.
Thank you for being soft with me in a world that wasn't β your softness has done quiet, important repair work.
I love that our friendship grew without spectacle β just steady, daily, real, like every good thing I trust now.
You are the friend I'd write into every chapter of my life β even the ones you weren't technically there for.
If I'm ever the friend to someone else that you've been to me, I'll consider my whole life well-spent.
Thank you for staying. That's the whole wish β that simple, that big. Thank you, with my whole heart, for staying.
Wishing you a holiday season as productive as our quarterly reviews but considerably more enjoyable, colleague.
May your time off be longer than our Monday meetings and twice as restorative.
Hoping the season brings you good food, better company, and an inbox that waits patiently until January.