Fresh today · Monday, 27 July

New Wishes

A handful of wishes pulled from the cabinet this morning. Pick one up — copy, save it to your pinboard, or send it on.

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Forty. You're now old enough to remember the time before the internet and young enough to still use it well. Optimal window.

Happy 40th. May the next decade bring you the kind of clarity your twenties were too busy panicking to understand.

Welcome to your forties. The decade where the gray hairs show up, the certainty about who you are also shows up, and one is a much better trade than the other.

Happy 40th birthday. The cake is bigger. The candles barely fit. The forecast is sunny with a slight chance of nostalgia.

Forty! The decade where you finally stop asking what people think of you and start asking what you think of them. Game changer.

Happy 40th. You're now old enough to know you don't know much, which paradoxically makes you much smarter than the 25-year-old version.

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Wishing you a smooth recovery. The office is quieter without you. We're not used to it. Come back when you're ready.

Get well soon. The chair, the desk, the standing meeting on Thursday — all waiting for you. We are too.

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